In a candid conversation on the 'Is This Seat Taken' podcast, Grammy-winning singer Tems opened up about the nuances of being in a romantic relationship with her. Speaking with actress Chinasa Anukam, Tems offered a metaphorical description of her personality and the experience of dating her.
Tems likened dating her to "stumbling upon a rare species of flower," elaborating that while her exterior may not be immediately attractive, the inner beauty she possesses is complex and multi-faceted. She emphasized that despite her inner beauty, there are still imperfections, which she symbolized as a stone at the center of the flower.
"Dating me is like stumbling upon a rare species of flower that looks black from the outside and when you open it, it has pink, purple but in the middle, there’s a stone," Tems explained, suggesting that while she has an intriguing and beautiful interior, she is also aware of her flaws.
Furthermore, Tems revealed that she has never been in love before, highlighting her desire for a partner who is emotionally intelligent, funny, and spiritually adept. This insight into her personal life offers fans a deeper understanding of the artist behind the music, showcasing her introspective nature and the qualities she values in a romantic relationship.